Reddit i still love my ex wife. I realize I still love my ex.

• Reddit i still love my ex wife e. Let's call him Danny and he never talk or nearly touch the topic about his ex wife, Mer, to me. I know I burned that bridge, but I keep standing on the shore looking across the waters, filled with regret. If you're clear headed when you fall in love, the reasons you did don't often just go away. I still dream about my ex every once and a while and that was over 12 years ago. my wife is right You are beating yourself up over this. I really want to say something but I don't want to mess up the relationships we have. My ex wife cheated and lied after 24 years together and raising 2 kids to adults. Stay away from booze and exercise will help you. On vacations with my current wife I would wake up dreaming of my ex. I adore my wife but there's just something there that makes me miss my ex. Even if my relationship with BF seems perfect, I was frustrated because I couldn't find all the passion I had before. I missed him so much even after all these years. I love my boyfriend because he is who he is, while on the other hand I DIDN'T love my ex boyfriend but just had feelings of physical attraction I wished were love. We are still friends in social media after the breakup. I love my husband, he is a great man, BUT he still talks to his ex wife and it bothers me. To read I (27F) have been dating my bf(32M) for over 2 years now but I still love my ex (29M). My wife is Why do I still have feelings for my ex? To get over a breakup, you need to change your way of thinking. I still talk to my ex. I had violent fights with myself at night and I couldnt focus at school. That being said I truly believe that my wife is really not in a good place and she happened to find someone to use as an escape for how she was feeling, My wife and I were married for 7 years before we separated. 5 years ago my (35M) wife (36F) decided she wanted a divorce. . Then I dated other women and it eased the pain but I was still in love with my ex. Those aren't the same person. We have been inseparable since we hooked up. I’ve done everything to try to get over him. While we were dating, and living together, she kept doubting herself and always second guessing my every doing. I think of him very frequently. I knew he mistreated me. I even had new girlfriends in between but when that breaks up I don't even care that much I still miss my ex girlfriend of 2 years ago. She says she loves me and that she's trying to get over him but I honestly don't know how to feel about it. I begged for him back after we broke up but I stopped doing that too. Not worth it. I love my kids, more than anything (more even than my ex wife). I feel terrible. One effective way of doing this that has been scientifically proven to work, is to sit down and think about all the negative aspects of your ex. We ended up in an affair for 6yrs, told our spouses, chose divorce and fast forward 3yrs later we're completely happy, our exes have moved on and my ex even had another baby. I cried my eyes out because damn. What I’m trying to say is, regardless of how you feel right now Why does my ex (M22) still want to sleep with me (F22), but doesn’t want to be in a relationship with me? He told me that he is obsessed to me but can't commit to a relationship. We used to get high in his apartment and would make love. She used to constantly tell The husband ended up falling love with his ex-wife's sister. In a few months, I started unconsciously to distance myself from BF and was talking more with my ex. After about 5 months of being broken up with my ex this girl and I started officially dating (bf/gf label bs). Last summer, July 2020, I looked up my recent alcoholic on FB and saw an obituary for her. I thought I’d never experience that relationship again. Just before she was going to go, I hugged her, and she just let it happen. I went out with my ex and had a great time. Which is fine, as I don’t want or expect my boyfriend to be exactly like my ex. And I STILL miss her. I tell her We both didn't speak for a long while and I eventually met a wonderful woman and got married but I still seem to be thinking about my ex a lot, and feel like speaking to her but I know it's wrong. We started dating, fell deeply in love, got married, had a baby, and decided to spend the rest of our lives together. But it’s there, and I don't feel it by any means gets in the way of my daily life or time with my husband (like you, I absolutely consider my husband the love of my life. I broke up in jealous when he claimed he first loved my best friend. He's my best F*(K. Does that make sense? For years I have put another person's love in my heart before the love I should have for myself Ok so I’m 17 and my ex is 15 (Ik y’all can make fun of me I don’t care lol) but after our breakup we continued to be friends and I would still drive her everywhere and Im still in love with her. My ex (35M) and I had an argument/ falling out roughly 10 years ago over something really trivial and I have thought I still love my ex . I've been with my new partner almost 17 years and we have a 14 year old kid, but I still think about So how about you give everyone here on Reddit a run down of how exactly you think sleeping with your Ex wife’s FRIEND (an ex wife you feel you can get back together with after betraying her the first time) is part of you ‘working on yourself’. And only then did I realize how much I truly loved my current wife. I thought I was done with my ex for a while, so I kept hanging out with this girl. We broke up because he moved abroad for work, not because we had a bad relationship. My fiancée is a beautiful woman, but she doesn’t compare to my ex-wife, I care about all my ex's from HS to my wife, to the ones after, even the abusive ones. They are all good people, some more so than others. I know tons of people who still hook up with their ex spouses even years after the divorce. Or you still love them. That’s why I had to leave so we wouldn’t continue hurting each other My (29m) ex (29f) and I broke up mid last year after 8 years. I(29F)still think about my ex too(31M), quite occasionally. I still, although I tried not to, I would still think of my ex regularly now. In reality, I have no expectation that I’ll love someone like my ex again, so this impulsive, controlling guy will have to do. We didn’t end well but there’s still so much love there. You’re a pig, and honestly I kinda agree with the above comment. But, this is the first time that I see I will say I started seeing someone else while I lived with my ex. I haven't had affairs however, but I have been the victim of my wife having an affair. I love my ex still and I always will. I loved kayaking with him, I loved going swimming together, watching shows in his crappy twin bed, smoking weed and drinking with him. That's why communicating your If you suspect you’re still in love with your ex while dating someone new, then here are a few things to consider, according to experts. Sincerely, Hey, I was the "bella" before. The back and forth was all him, he wouldn’t leave me alone even though he broke up with me. Fast forward 6 months later I don't know how long you two were together but my longest relationship was 4 years and I tried my damnedest to patch things together and make things work but the truth was that she didn't love me anymore and she wasn't loyal to me buuut that's the kind of world we live in right now lots of people are just around for the cheap thrills of life and while it will take quite some time to I still love my ex and its been four years. I was really depressed for about a year after the divorce, but I got into therapy and my depression subsided. I was dumb but I think we all do is our dirty little secret, nowadays most people just settle, at least that’s what my dad told me, he said he still loved my mom and is married to a new woman who is nice. The break-up was amicable. You don't know all those little things about a person that make you fall in love with them. Or at least, I do. I still have love for my girlfriend from I still love my wife . It’s like he lives in my head and I think about him Every. I'm not Ayn Rand and I'm not a hedonist, people aren't here to please me and I don't weigh them depending on their "worth" for me. We were still in love, but felt like we needed space to grow I loved her with all my heart, I cared about her more than any s/o I ever had. I adore her and I still love my ex, I love my ex's caring personality, I love how hard he tried to change things for the better. Can work but sleeping in the same bed would be a no go for me. I have a girlfriend currently (F21) of 7 years and she has never been a I have memories of us being happy. We had tickets to a concert we both were looking forward to. Until we broke up. I knew he was bad for me. We communicate and see one another, while not frequently and we still I love my ex-wife so much I fucking hate her and wish she was dead. But everything started to change in her. When I beat a Resident Evil game, I was sad because it was something I wanted to tell my ex. I have been single and working on myself, I’ve gone on a few dates and have had men want something serious with me, but I’m not After 10 years i am still deeply in love with my wife. This isn't something I feel all the time or consistently. My ex wife and I still live together. Not about your ex. I continue to live in pain, depression. I don't necessarily regret the divorce because in my specific case, it took a lot of stress off my shoulders, just due to how I internalized things. We were happy AF, everything was smooth, we have bought a house recently and trying to make a kid. He is still there for me when I need him (my dog died last week and he was on the phone with me to comfort me, he told me he loved me several times and even prayed for me over the phone. She’ll never love anyone the same way, not yet at least. She Get the Reddit app Scan this QR code to download the app now Sure, my ex wife. Now just because I care about them does not mean I would go back, or leave a girlfriend for an ex. I'm not sure how this would affect my future relationship. I’ve been married to my darling hubby for 37 years, he wasn’t my first true love, who was a pos as it turned out but I thought about him and my heart ached for many years. I see myself with him as his wife, I can see it so clearly, I Five years before this, I reconnected with my first wife. ) June of 21' some shit went Cut off contact. I just really want to get this off my chest. She was out of state and had some of my belongings. The reason I'm asking this question is because I do want her back. ) June of 21' some shit went down between us that made the 1+ year separation into a "yup time to make it official". I know he’s happy and he deserves to be, he’s a great person. I never had closure either. Our relationship was an emotional rollercoaster. So I have been keeping this for a couple of months. I love my sister. I felt second best for 9 years. Not even if he “cuts contact” with her. I care about them because they shared a part of their life with me, and I did with them. We hugged for about 5 mins squeezing eachother and then I went for it. She had died a few days prior at her mom's house. Nobody is born with one set of behaviors that they stick with for the rest of their lives. I've grown in my new career path and finding success has been amazing after working through those years of "occupational turmoil", I'll call it. I traveled 2 times. Never know what’s going to happen I guess, but Father Time waits for no one. Two years ago I fell in love with greatest woman ever Diamond. Those are just my thoughts, I'm no I still love my ex whom i met first 16 years back and last 10 years. She gave me plenty of time to fix myself (substance abuse and bi-polar 2 with bouts of major depression. She's had partners before me, and I had some small high-school romances, but she's my first in a lot of ways. Do this at least for a little while. I love that he I realize I still love my ex. As much as my bf has grown on me (because I really do love him) I have never felt My ex-wife committed suicide on Monday and I still haven't told my kids, but will on Saturday . Originally posted to r/TrueOffMyChest. We still held hands and texted every day; but she would not kiss me anymore. That nobody would ever be like him. My ex was an important part of my life for most of my 20s and the closest friend I’ve ever had. I destroyed my fiancé’s dead ex wife photos and her antique horse collection and my fiancé doesn’t know. Even though he is now my fiancé, it's brutal to look back, connect the dots and realize he wasn't fully presennt/with me. I still break down crying for him, though only rarely anymore. Still thinking about my ex but I’m married [new] I (33F) have been with my spouse (40M) for nine years and married for three. Stuff was great until recently I keep thinking about my ex. I am usually not the jealous type but while we were going out, he (the ex wanted to “be friends” and we still went on outings like dinner, concerts, etc. We have maintained a sort of friendship but there is little communication. He trusted me and I lived with my ex for 3 months while seeing the new guy. The fact that when she was asked if she would go back to that ex she said “no” is a big deal. This goes for literally everything, from people to doorknobs and oak trees. She was everything to me I’m married but I still think about my ex . My mother was a nightmare MIL. It may not just be the idea of her as you did love her and the feelings were authentic and not just thought up, but it very well could be the memory of her and the feelings and nostalgia attached. All I know is that I miss her and I I[44m] got my stepson[18m] interested in boxing, he got suspended for standing up to his bully, and now my wife[40f] is very angry with me. We had a great Hey, after reading your post, I am in shock because your situation is very similar to mine. We are strictly friends now and it doesn’t ever go past regular conversation of course, and he’s never know I still somewhere felt that way. We weren’t compatible on many levels and things got extremely There is no one best way to get over an ex, but when you realize, “I still think about my ex all the time,” there are fortunately ways to cope with missing someone. I was devastated, but in the end, I wanted her to be happy and in love, and I still do. I don't necessarily want to be with her again. Single. It's shit because were older now, more mature and we still get on like a house on fire, the sexual chemistry is still there but. We talked a LOT an also loved the talking and eachother still but we wouldn‘t come back together. And it works. Laughing. She and I are still close friends and care about one another. I have messed things up royally in my life at times, to the point where I just wanted to end it. Or I do still care for her and love her as a person and as the mother of my daughter. On the contrary it was great, we were completely in love. Since I haven’t have much luck with a serious relationship (I’ve casually dated) since my ex, I still think about him even though he’s moved on etc. This is crazy But I'm still not over my wife from 1 year ago Almost 2 years later and I still love my ex-wife. I never was really in love with BF, I think I was in love with our image If you still holds feeling for her you should leave becasue hou can't heal in a place that hurts you. I miss the I love my friends. Regardless, I kept one thing in mind after I broke up with her; DO NOT TALK TO HER. And I’d never feel love so strong again. I feel disgusting for that one especially, but I do my best to not let her see it. I don't think I could ever consider going back, but sometimes I wish those qualities would randomly show up to some degree in my wife. We divorced 2 years ago, and we were dating for 1 year, married for 3. Our relationship was not perfect, but it wasn't terribly either, and her wanting a divorce was a major surprise to me. It's normal, I think. I love and care for them too but my feelings for my ex just won't go Hi, yes it’s perfectly normal to. Prior to meeting my The way I love my wife is different from the way I love my ex’s. I've been with others since then, but it's never been the same as it was with him. Even when we have sex, I can’t help but picture her instead sometimes. Especially in my heart, I never, not been in love with another person. I feel like I can never reach out to him because the whole thing was "a shit show" From both of us. It eventually faded but it took a few years. I really think that you DO love your wife and the feelings for the ex are purely lust. She was & still is the love of my life and our divorce is my biggest regret. He got my love for certain things that my current boyfriend doesn’t. The past 4 months we were long distance and she traveled 3 times just to see me. My issue now When I got the news that she passed, I was heartbroken because even though we were never close, she was still my mother and I regretted not talking to her. In my situation me and my ex were friends before we dated. I love my new partner but I constantly feel guilty because I still have feelings for my ex husband, too. I never cheated on my wife before that and I still say I didn’t. This forum has been very therapeutic for me, being able to just vent and share my shit and hear other perspectives. I still think about him everyday. They say time is the best healer but I still feel like I’m in the same spot. He was my best friend, he was my everything back then :( I couldn't tell anyone about this because I have a bf and I dont think it's appropriate to even feel this way. I hope you can find love again. Female here, Im not sure if im 'in love' persay with my ex but I would never turn down an offer to be in a relationship with him again. She had been active since she So I (M21) am still in love with my ex girlfriend(F21) . You don’t actually know I was in a similar circumstance. My I finally knew how my ex-wife felt about me; you can still love someone but for your own emotional health you have to leave them. I love her for the Mother she is to our children and the Nana she is to our grandchildren. I would suggest not dating for a few months after the divorce is final. It could be anybody. the second time was the ‘final time’, however we started talking again for a bit afterwards and became fwb (bad idea, i know). Day. That's not to say I think any of my grandparents are perfect people, or that their marriages were perfect, but they were happy. I still love him tho, it’s been a year, almost two, and my feelings are still as strong as always. I miss my ex but she’s moved on To get over a breakup, you need to change your way of thinking. A year into our relationship he did admit he still had some feelings for his ex so I decided to break things off with him Posted by u/[Deleted Account] - 2 votes and 7 comments I have an ex I deeply miss, and we’re still friends. Almost 2 months into my breakup and he is still telling me he loves me. I've been hung up on him since the day I started my relationship. He didn't lie to me. We had a perfectly amicable break up after the toll of losing 2 children pushed us apart and we decided that going through the rigmarole of finding new homes etc just didn’t make sense when we could continue living together and enjoying the financial benefits of jointly paying bills etc. i just can’t fathom spending one more year living with her. Reply reply idtryanythingtwice • Im not a scientist but I would think it has something to do with how much she or he impacted you at that time in your life. There is no rule or law that says he can’t still feel love in his heart. Why? Next day I confronted him. We agree to meet up and we do. We were childhood friends and always had feelings for each other in some capacity. Our breakup was semi toxic, we went back and forth for almost 2 years and it’s been two years since I’ve spoken to him. I dream about him. We NFs can often not forget like most people can just erase. Not redit. Tried to communicate my appreciation on a daily basis. I don’t want the next person I date to feel like they are competing with my ex for my love, but I also don’t want to just leave all the good memories behind. We would talk once in a while until January When you want to reunite with your ex-partner, it’s normal to feel desperate to win them back, but this pressure is likely to push them away. Now I've reached a point where I'm okay with being alone, it sucks sometimes, and who knows, maybe life will happen and I'll get with someone else, but I don't think I'll ever truly be in love with anyone again, I may love them, but for me, there's a difference between love and in love. It just means their presence deeply impacted your life and it’s just leftover memories or emotions. We last saw each other in September 2021. Our first year together was blissful, the problem started in year 2. I have been with my boyfriend for nearly a year now. With him it was just more crazy passionate love, but also drama and lots of hurt feelings. I’ve been divorced for a year now and my ex husband has moved on and started dating an old college friend that I knew he would date if we ever broke up. They’ll never be my ex. that happened after i started dating someone else for a couple weeks after a few months (we broke up because it just wasn’t I will always love my ex and to this day, I still tell her I love her! I love her for the many years we spent together, the experiences we had and the life we lived together. I like this new girl so much, but I think I still love my ex. He then said he'd like to talk to me. I think at least. She's my bestfriend, my homie, my I was still in love with my Ex when I met my husband. I contacted her family, and turned out she passed away suddenly of a heart So this is my first time on Reddit. In the living world, we may tickle the real deal because we've got live feedback coming at us, i. She was my best friend, the love of my life and my soulmate. It happens maybe a few times a month, sometimes even less. But, after 2 years being divorced, my ex wife and I have suddenly found ourselves exchanging glances, making little flirty comments, and making extra attempts to have conversation beyond our co-parenting duties (we have a You may love your wife 10 years ago, but you don't love the ex-wife you haven't been personally close to in 10 years. It’s hard to pretend that doesn’t mean something to me. We have many good memories and she still did many things to me that hunt me and make me feel weird about breaking up. I personally do not want to have sex with my wife anymore for emotional reasons but I have had ex-girlfriends in the past who I regularly hooked up with long after we split, if we were both single and in the mood. In fact we were on again off again for a month after the breakup. When my boyfriend asked me to be his girlfriend, I was immediately very nervous about jumping into another relationship, but didn't want to miss out on an opportunity to be with That trust is irreplaceable. Recently, I was at a party where my ex husband was as well. in January or 2023 he told me that he wasn’t ready for a relationship and had a therapist and then 2 weeks later he got in a So, I need some advice and please tell me if I’m overthinking this. What we had was true love. Her health has been an emotional rollercoaster for the last handful of years. When things ended with that BF, it hit me, I haven't truly been alone in a long time. I’m fond of every single thing about them and love them very deeply still. I have successfully reshaped myself in the six months we've been broken up, since There are times I miss certain qualities of my ex before my wife. I also do still love my ex but I gotta move forward and I’m with another nice girl trying my best with her, she loves me and I say it back just because To others it looks like I’ve moved on. Our marriage survived four years in the Marine Corps infantry while my buddies were getting Dear John letters or coming back home to a pregnant wife that wasn't theirs. No, you do not need to be There are many reasons why someone may still love their ex-partner, despite the relationship ending. I found this hard for the next few days as I had to deal with knowing my wife isn't in love with me! Has been messaging a work colleague with a view to be physical that week and that over the months off the messages has now got feelings for this other guy!! I asked for a divorce which hurt as I love my wife even after this news! She said I The sex was amazing. I love her and I do know she loves me but I don't think it's fair to me to give my everything to someone when they are hung up on an ex and can't do the same for me Seven years have passed and I’m still not over my first love. She even I (27f) met my boyfriend's (35m) ex wife (29f) and I want them to get back together. I do still feel angry over the situation, not sure if that's normal or not. I’m happy as it is, very happy, but there are some days which are pretty difficult. My ex and I still talk. Our sons are now 9 and 13. Similar to you, I had a hard time when I see her pictures, or when anyone TL;DR- I love my ex-girlfriend despite our multiple break-ups. I am happy in my daily life, I just tend to be a dreamy person anyway, so I reminisce and dream about all my memories a in the shortest form possible, my ex and i dated for about a year and a half and we had quite a bit of issues and broke up twice. I was still madly in love. After four months since my betrayal, finding myself still attracted to my ex-husband, I put together a love triangle. Iam INFP and i once read an ENFP saying samething. I love that he knows how strong and independent I am. She told me that the 15 days we spent together in her place were the best days of her life. Unless you’re looking for a reason to breakup. He’s also a redditor, so throwaway account for obvious reasons. I spent every day with her since. He would go running back if she ever My SO is still in love with her ex and doesn't know I know . It's been hard, but I've grown to love her more through all the stress. I feel depressed. I’ve been with my husband for 9 years and married 3 1/2 years. That is when I froze. “i am no longer in love with my wife” sounds more accurate. It takes time to heal for me it was around 1 year post divorce. Last night, around the time him left, I was on social media and noticed that my ex has a girlfriend. Things like that. I could not have asked for more. We live two miles a part and we get the kids one week on, one week off. He broke down in tears and said that he is still in love with his ex. I went to therapy for a long time. I also "feel love" for her, and that allows me to let her go and respect her decision (she wanted the divorce). I've found someone better. hes not interested. Her ex husband was an emotional abuser, never physical, but would always belittle her. It's been 6 years since we broke up but we talk often as friends. And she with me, being in love doesn't mean you can build a life together successfully. Two ways she impacted my life I'm [29F] and still in love with my ex, [29M]. Be Honest With Yourself About Your Feelings For Your In August 2021, me (M21) and my ex (F20) broke up. But I continued to miss her. I (32f) met my husband (31m) 10 years ago. And I love my new boyfriend. They both ended up going to jail for kidnapping charges, apparently they had a threesome that went sideways and the guy tied the girl up and smacked her around, my ex was there and did nothing to stop him. Original Post March 15, 2023. Feels don’t always follow logic. It was an ugly divorce. I went months without crying, it has been two years since I even saw him. But it still made my heart ache. The relationship has left me wondering if there is more to life and love than the mediocrity my spouse and I have created for ourselves. When it was bad, it was horribly bad. When I saw that, feelings immediately came to me and I felt hurt. I loved my parents. kinky and affectionate. He just has to treat you Both of my grandfathers cheated on my grandmothers at some point in their marriages, and both relationships recovered, at least enough, to remain happily married by the time I was born and knew them. I tried to anticipate her every need and want. if she were sick in a hospital i would be there by her side no matter what. Nothing ever happened to turn the love into hate so even if he did still love her he chose to live the rest of his life with you. He recently went to jail and he called me She did that). Her body count went from 1 to 8 in under Yeah people learn and grow, I’m not sure what kind of shielded environment you grew up in to not have had these interactions with people. I became uncomfortable with Amy's sexual past. It's not daily anymore but it's at least weekly (and certainly would have been daily when I was only 3 years past it like you are). You don't know how she eats her waffles in the morning. When I did something nice for I did some therapy immediately after I got myself discovered, but then I stopped it. Discard the love thing, just analyse Hell, in some ways I still love my ex-wife even though she disgusts me and I've not talked to her seen her in a LONG time as our 3 children are all young adults, out of the house and on their own. He’s been married previously and was divorced shortly before we began our relationship. I missed my ex but loved spending time with my current BF at the time. I began therapy before confronting my lying cheating wife as I found an attorney and a therapist before No one talks about anything inappropriate or risque or anything that would even remotely push some boundaries. It’s been a few months since we broke up and I thought that I would be over it by now but I’m not. The next thing I know I found out she fucked 7 guys in 2 weeks. I was with my ex for over ten years and there's no one in the world who knows me better than him, and when he's functioning he's the kindest, most loving man I've ever met. After the divorce, we had no real meaningful relationship other than talking about the kids, scheduling and stuff. We were generally good to each other, we never cheated on each other, and we get on incredibly well, from our views on life, to how we were raised. but I wish they weren’t the one who got away. We have a 9yo boy and have a great co I only got married after I found out that she had married and moved across the country. Try not to beg and plead it does nothing but push the other partner away. It ended on really bad terms and I was at fault. Just bear in mind that it's not the same My advice is that any issues you have with your wife aren't related to this ex. But I still loved him. And although I understand the reasons we broke up and can see how things would be better with other people, ultimately it was her decision and I would have preferred to work through our issues if given the opportunity. This was eight years ago, my ex has since found someone decent, has children and started a fairly successful business. I shed the dishes irritation. He works 3rd shift so the only alone time I have is when I’m sleeping. Eventually my ex-husband left, my choice became easy and ever since then I have been in an exclusive relationship with my then affair partner. I knew, cuz she told me, that she is still talking to her ex boyfriend. We have a great relationship and he is everything that anyone would want in a husband. I (20 F) Cannot seem to get over him. As we built our lives together the past 10 years with a home and two children I’ve become more and more in love with my wife’s twin sister. My ex and I were together 4 years, and broke up 1 year ago. He and update: i would agree that my title and post were probably sounding more cold than i felt at the time of writing. I always used to think I had a small penis but turns out it's pretty standard, 6"x5". Just take it slow, you have the rest of your lives to make it up to each other, but don't force it or try to make it ramp up rapidly. Before marrying him, he told me casually he spoke to her every 3-4 days, I gave him the ring back but we worked things out. The person I was at 27 is totally different than my 29 year old Met with my ex for the first time in a year and, we ended up being together for about 2 hours. I have my own auto detailing business which I run on the side of my career and on the weekend, I have a social media page for it and I have set it as a public profile because it is only for business content and I never put anything personal on it. ) I miss him If you love your wife you'll cut your friendship with Bella. Consider the following strategies for how to not miss someone when you can’t get over an ex: Think about the reasons why they ended the relationship I've been struggling with getting over my ex for 2 years now. She was emotionally abusive and she held me View community ranking In the Top 1% of largest communities on Reddit. There was nothing inappropriate between us, but after I discovered my wife's affair, I started getting closer to my ex. Well Reddit I guess I don't need any advice, per say. She ended up blocking me though and I haven't heard absolutely anything from her for almost two months. Update HERE. She rarely reciprocated my efforts, but she was my best friend and I was completely happy with our relationship Then a few days ago she tells me that she "still loves her ex so much". But I'm only currently "in love" with my wife, and that causes pain. And I was right. I know my ex and I are Still living with my ex . Especially if the breakup was left with love. Focus on being the best you can be. I still love my wife, but like someone said, the romance is gone. If these feelings continue then be honest with your wife, but for the loved of God, make it about her and you. It's okay to still love your wife Me (15, F) and my girlfriend (14, F), who were in a long-distance relationship (for a year), broke up. I’m not even want to pretend that I haven’t been the problem the entire relationship and didn’t realize it. I Background: I been with my wife Erin for 7 years and married for 5, and we have a 2 year old. I fully admit I want to give it a try with her again and we discussed it, but she wants me to at least wait a year But, no matter how hard I try, I’m still in love with my ex-wife. Logically I was over him and did NOT want him back, but sometimes I’d have dreams about him and wake up with sad dream-feelings. My ex and I divorced six years ago. I swear she's NPD. 5yrs. So I've been divorced since August 17 2021. My aunt later said she just wanted to say that she loved me and that she wasn’t upset that I didn’t want to talk to her. Then one day after school she was by herself so I took the opportunity to go up to her, she was on a phone call and i listened in by Throwaway account because ex is on Reddit. My husband is a great lover, friend, dad, and partner in general. We both love each other still and admit it but are in other relationships. Sorry if my thoughts seem disjointed, I'm just trying to get words and thoughts out. I didn't think he would cheat because he wasn't late or hid anything on his phone. My ex husband was in love with his ex for our whole marriage and it eventually tore us apart (amongst other things) even though he never admitted it and wasn’t with her physically until immediately after we separated. I miss my ex from about 6 years ago. Growing up and being insecure in myself as I got older I got in shape and became more secure( or what I thought I love my new girlfriend, she is amazing and funny, we clicked immediately, on top of that, we actually have interesting conversations about real world topics and problems, but she is also so funny shes is so pretty too I love how naturally photogenic she is and on top of that she wants to be in better shape and look fit not just thin like a model, which I love about her bettering herself . TRIGGER WARNING Death of a parent, destruction of property, emotional abuse and emotional manipulation. Just take your time and think about all the negative aspects that came with being in a relationship with your ex. Is it normal? Lol They didn’t divorce because of hatred, like most marriages. Despite all this, I still get major insecurity about her ex's size, and whether she's comparing us, and whether it felt better with him inside rather than me. We lived together for a little over 3 years, and were both kind of stuck in a rut. But then again I’m not - I don’t love my ex anymore, or I even do, but I don’t want her back even if she wanted to. My heart broke. I stupidly let I've reconnected with a ex from 23 years ago who's told me she still loves me. Then when we finally became intimate and made love, he said his ex-wife's name. Like I miss the way he treated me and how he made me feel. I am still in love with my ex and we have been broken up for about two years now. We are just a better match for each other, we get along great have a lot of the same interest. does that make any sense? She’s amazing. Turns out he had previously been cheated on, and apparently my ex-wife lied to him about his relationship status. My ex and I dated for 2. Positive I had a feeling for a while that my wife was cheating on me, as someone who’s had cheaters around them all of my life, I seen the signs, I seen through the lies, and I’ve seen through the plot holes. I still love my ex husband . The problem is that I still love her. I guess I know how she So, I "know" my wife because I've been with her for over 20 years, but what exists in my mind isn't necessarily the true wife, it's what I've built "wife" to be based on our interactions over 20 years. Sometimes, I wake up in the morning and I look at my fiancée, and I wish it was my ex-wife. I still continue to love him with all my soul, heart, mind and every ounce of my body. I love him, but my feelings for my ex have emerged. We were both 18 when we met, I fell madly in love, we spent 6 years together, his So in mid 2021 my ex and I broke up. And I would still have to pay her. I don't think we are ever getting back together, I haven't even spoken to him in four years and I don't know if I would even be My last relationship, which was like a week ago, ended because I saw her, my ex, on school campus and the fact that she was nearby me and I couldn't talk to her made me devastated. We hung out one time and i fell and fell hard. I love all of my exes, I wouldn't have been with them if I didn't. I don't wanna be unfair to them. He loves boxing, she hates it. There was nothing going on between us and I stayed in the spare room, and I moved out when I could (and in with the new guy coincidentally). She already had a new boyfriend like 2 weeks after we broke up, or atleast that was when I found out. She moved away when we were in middle school and I’ve thought about her since. I thought I’d never get over him. I sometlmes do them as they drop them in and I’m walking by throughout the day or while making my morning coffee. I know that They are not lazy, we have a big house, my wife works full time and they do plenty of other cleaning, dogs walked etc. I'm friend with my ex and I'm friend cause he's nicer to me than when we were together and it's nice being with him and around him. The only thing I know about them is that they have a 5 year old son whom he visits or bring to his home every My ex came crawling back too. When it was good, it was great. I don't know. I And "meeting the other dude" - no. It may not mean I'm in "love" with her still. But we do sex casually (when we meet) and always chat all day, do calls, hangout together (both of us or wirh his friends) and nothing change between when we were in I still had feelings for my ex when I started seeing my current boyfriend, but they muted more and more as I carried on- especially after I saw that my ex got a new girlfriend (it stung a bit, but I was happy for him). We just went back to friends when dating didn't work. I tried with other people and it took me years to recover from not having her in my life. But this is the 1st thread that I could really relate to and hope that my divorce goes similarly. I was still chasing my now ex wife a few months into separation, it was until she gave me a firm NO that I accepted it was over. We were together for 5 years. We were super compatible in bed. I am with whoever im with at the time because I love them, Yet I still sometimes feel some sort of longing for my ex wife. I truly did love her, and I'm sure there are parts of me that still do. For the I haven't, but as the person who realized way late in the game that her significant other still had feelings or something for his ex-wife, be honest with yourself and the person you're currently with. Then one day something snapped in my head and I just decided to move on. Well that afternoon I get a phone call, its my ex-wife boyfriendhe apologized for sleeping with my ex-wife I told him no worries. At least that way I wouldn't have dreams of getting back together with the cunt despite how fucking bad she hurt me. The parents stayed involved in their grandchild's life even though the wife wasn't there anymore. These reasons could include lingering feelings of attachment, nostalgia for the good times, a sense of comfort and If you think your partner is still holding on to feelings they have for their ex, it can cause problems in your relationship even without you realizing it. So what you should look at would be how you feel around her and about her. I had no idea or I met my wife in college freshman year and started dating and married soon after we graduated. I went from a extroverted party girl (but not a hoe) to an extremely introverted best friend He was perfect, so much that he changed my mind about marriage but it ended due to different things. You both still have love for each other enough to be there for your son, hitch means you're good parents, and it doesn't sound like you hate each other. tl;dr: after 2 years of a relationship I ended things with my ex. She is still the girl I love most (2nd to my mother) and talking would probably mean getting back Get the Reddit app Scan this QR code to download the app now. My (27M) SO (27F) and I have been together nearly 7 years and now live together. You should talk to her. The reason she wanted to is because she is The reason she wanted to is because she is Advertisement I got drunk last night and after my girlfriend went to bed I just sat and cried for almost 2 hours missing my ex. We both have new partners and all get in well. Over the last 8-9 years, I was sad and missed my ex; however, it got better last year. Reply reply Encelitsep • I am not quite over 30 but I got divorced a little over a year ago. She has a new boyfriend, and I can't let myself get in the way of the two them. Let me explain, my ex and I have been broken up for 8 months now, inbetween we both had some romances but after seeing each other again we couldn‘t resis to talking again, and we did. Almost 2 years later and I still love my ex-wife. My husband We've grown closer instead of apart. He was my first love, we had quite a tumultuous relationship before it ended in 2019. That doesn’t mean she’ll never feel that same way about someone. But I thought I’d always love him. I wrote a letter that I've been debating on sending. I love my wife very much. Disclaimer my wife is a kind soul but we don’t have that spark that we used to. nobody could love me the way he did. You don't know her procedure for getting ready for bed. We kissed for probably just as long. The grandparents were hesitant to accept the new dynamic between husband and his ex-wife's sister, because they were still in contact with ex-wife. My wife (F34) and I (30M) ve got married after 2 months. She was my 4th partner, and according to her I was her 13th. I still love my ex gf . I had one relationship with someone before realizing it wasn't so much the other person (my ex wife) who needed to change, it was me. But everything turned out well for the I started thinking too much. We became friends again and she met my current wife. Took her on vacation, gave her presents regularly. You seem to love the way she made you feel as well. I truly love him. My partner is not bothered by or jealous about my history with my ex, my ex has no interest in trying to "win me back" or whatever, and I have no interest in dating my ex again. but no more sex). I also had a breakup with an ex and experience a loss of family (grandma) at the same time. She's never given me any reason to worry about our sex or my penis size. I am not The OOP, OOP is u/Goodbyehoney. Sometimes I just don’t get to them and they pile and my wife gets to them. So for us it's quite easy to be friends. Sometimes I would think about leaving my husband coz I'm unhappy with our relationship but I don't wanna hurt him and his family because they love me and care for me. We're still technically married right now, but over the past 2 years I've realized that although I still love her very much and we're still great friends, she's not a good fit for me anymore. I can't stand my ex-wife, and she's a bitch who cheated on me eighteen years ago, but she still crosses my mind. They're on you, and partially your wife (but only if you communicate and act as partners in life). ) I am pretty much embarrassingly in love and infatuated with my husband. It’s more like being widowed than being divorced. I cried over him last night, and just thinking about how much I miss him now is making me cry again. How should I deescalate this? Did I really mess up? My husband (39) and I (34) have been married for 2 years. Me (28m) and my ex (26f) have been together or in each others lives going on 9 years broken up and living together for the last five months. I also believe I owed her money for something. I have always felt that if you’re in touch with your ex while you’re in a relationship with your current SO it shows that there was a lack of closure. My Ex was my first serious boyfriend, lost my virginity to him, lived together to. I was very much in love with her. But there is something which bothers me. I still miss him and wish we could be together. zau jdnugk xlgpb medsqc tanp yzcib rxoxf szobpd iiajzlk wpg